RECONNECT
WITH THE LOVE YOU KNOW IS THERE
MOVE PAST THE BLAME GAME
Develop true intimacy
Structured and experiential couples work that helps both partners thrive.
Create a Thriving Relationship.
Together.
Relationship Coaching with Ryan is for
COUPLES WHO
Struggle With
- Mutual disappointment and resentment
- Communicating effectively
- Feeling heard or understood
- Getting stuck in painful patterns
Aspire to
- Stay in touch with the love you know is there
- Create a relationship based in trust
- Explore partnership as a crucible of psycho-emotional growth (bar none)
- Become intimate with their shadow and how it arises in relationship
Tired of having the same conversations?
Read more about how ryan can help
You're tired of having the same conversations, the ones that run into familiar walls over and over again in your relationship.
And you wish that your partner could deeply see you. Beyond the moments of passing each other in the kitchen or a kiss goodbye in the morning..
But you find yourselves falling into patterns of communicating that seem like they have a life of their own - and you don’t understand why the hell they take you over - and how to get out of them. Bickering about the little stuff and avoiding the underlying dissatisfaction and resentment that is driving the fighting or distancing.
As your communication takes on this quality, it's easy to begin seeing your partner as a threat, not an ally.
Here's a dirty little secret: every couple in the world does this. A successful intimacy is one of the most challenging things we can do in our lives. You can't just 'wing it'!
The ones who make it through choose to lean into the love despite the difficulties AND to learn new tools: trust-based vulnerability, deeply understanding what makes your partner tick, and practicing how to ask for and receive what you need.
You never got handed these tools. So you're left wanting a new way to relate with no idea how to find it.
The first step is finding enough humility to say, "yes, I want to acquire these tools."
The next step is choosing your guide - because without this person, you'll never spot and repattern dysfunctional habits in the relationship. Reading books just won't cut it.
That's where I come in.
I know how to walk a couple into their defensive patterns so they both can see them, let go of them intentionally, and open to the connected and vibrant relationship they know is possible.
Give yourself permission to stop struggling so much in relationship and avail yourself of the support that will enhance the thing that is the biggest determinant of your happiness: the quality of your relationships.
PS: We live in an amazing time, there is so much science and evidence-based work around the neurology of our relating. If you're curious about approaching this through a scientific viewpoint, take a look at this.
Counseling with Ryan is for
COUPLES WHO
Struggle With
- Mutual disappointment and resentment
- Communicating effectively
- Feeling heard or understood
- Getting stuck in painful patterns
Aspire to
- Stay in touch with the love you know is there
- Create a relationship based in trust
- Explore partnership as a crucible of psycho-emotional growth (bar none)
- Become intimate with their shadow and how it arises in relationship
Tired of having the same conversations?
Read more about how ryan can help
You're tired of having the same conversations, the ones that run into familiar walls over and over again in your relationship.
And you wish that your partner could deeply see you. Beyond the moments of passing each other in the kitchen or a kiss goodbye in the morning..
But you find yourselves falling into patterns of communicating that seem like they have a life of their own - and you don’t understand why the hell they take you over - and how to get out of them. Bickering about the little stuff and avoiding the underlying dissatisfaction and resentment that is driving the fighting or distancing.
As your communication takes on this quality, it's easy to begin seeing your partner as a threat, not an ally.
Here's a dirty little secret: every couple in the world does this. A successful intimacy is one of the most challenging things we can do in our lives. You can't just 'wing it'!
The ones who make it through choose to lean into the love despite the difficulties AND to learn new tools: trust-based vulnerability, deeply understanding what makes your partner tick, and practicing how to ask for and receive what you need.
You never got handed these tools. So you're left wanting a new way to relate with no idea how to find it.
The first step is finding enough humility to say, "yes, I want to acquire these tools."
The next step is choosing your guide - because without this person, you'll never spot and repattern dysfunctional habits in the relationship. Reading books just won't cut it.
That's where I come in.
I know how to walk a couple into their defensive patterns so they both can see them, let go of them intentionally, and open to the connected and vibrant relationship they know is possible.
Give yourself permission to stop struggling so much in relationship and avail yourself of the support that will enhance the thing that is the biggest determinant of your happiness: the quality of your relationships.
PS: We live in an amazing time, there is so much science and evidence-based work around the neurology of our relating. If you're curious about approaching this through a scientific viewpoint, take a look at this (NEED THE LINK!).