How Smart Couples Avoid Resentment

Ryan Ginn Relationships

For years and years, my wife and I made decisions about our lives on the fly. It sort of worked at the time, but when I look back now, it left us vulnerable to arguments because we were often not on the same page and this got very tiresome. Things only got more intense when we had a child — …

The Relationship Between Criticism, Control, and Vulnerability

Ryan Ginn Relationships

There’s an ongoing dynamic in my marriage where I have a need for things to be orderly around the house. While my wife isn’t necessarily messy, she has different priorities when it comes to being clean. Whenever the house environment feels too chaotic and disorderly for me, a judgemental part of me takes over and starts to control her through …